I Am going to admit, I Receive most of My Thoughts and Ideas while in the shower. Today I Thought of this concept “The Spellbound Effect”, it goes as such. Do You notice when You are intrigued with some one such as a movie star, author, business owner, Friend, etc… Some one You look up to, it is cause there is some thing in them that You either wish to possess or detest.
What I mean is, Have You noticed We are interested in what goes on in others Lives both negative and positive. For example gossip magazines, media, news, etc… What ever is Being presented, You are some what interested to know, and You end up over time following some one’s Life when ever possible.
Now, why Do We Do this? Why Do We Care what is going on in some one’s Life? I Believe it is because they are Resonating some thing You wish to possess or detest. This is Powerful, as it Can Help You Grow either way. Let’s say You Have a Mentor, some one You Can model to Be. They possess Qualities You Desire to Emanate. The Easiest way to get these Qualities is to associate Your Self with some one who Has what You Desire.
This also, works for the latter. If People around You possess lesser Qualities, things You detest, then this will propel You to search for the Qualities You wish to Have! Or You will continue to Be some one You dislike. Now, “Where are You going with this?” You may ask,Â¬â€ “We are all drawn to People that Aspire to Be Great!”. I Call this “The Spellbound Effect”!!!
We are Attracted to People who Achieve what they Desire! However, why are We interested in the negative things others Do? Well, that is because there is some thing within Us that detests that, and wishes to make it Better. So, instead of making things Better in Our Self, We continue to read, watch, and listen to the stuff out there that is negative, and will continue to Attract the stuff that You detest. The only way to change what You Do not Like out there, You must change what You are within! When You Do this, I Promise You will Enjoy the Experiences in Your Life!
Now, surround Your Self with Good Thoughts, and Great People! Use “The Spellbound Effect” to Your advantage!